...a time of parties every year-end :)
December 2010 was extremely special to us because it marked the last few gatherings we would have with my cousins, who have flown over to Tokyo since, possibly in a long long time to come. We're missing them already...and i think it'd suffice to say that frequent trips to Japan are in store for the next few years :)
Over the past few years, i've realised that nothing in life is predictable. I used to think that the future could be planned...that i would be in love, get married, get more dogs, maybe have a kid or two, and settle into the mundane routines of Singaporean life. I think i was born systematic and organised...i was born to be a 'planner'. The unknown scares me, and i often have to resist the urge to plan beyond the next two years of my life.
But now, for better or for worse, i have learnt (and am still learning) that sometimes, we need to go with the flow, explore new possibilities, see the world from different angles, and make adjustments along the way. To bring on the 'why-nots' instead of questioning why. The past two years were painful and difficult, but i think it can only get better from now. I have big hopes for the next 3 to 5 years...dreams and goals, but not plans :) Will i get there eventually? We'll see :)
Of course u'll get there dear. i've come to realise it too... many times, just having a goal/dream to work towards is sufficient. things seldom work out the way i planned it to be...
hey, we did talk abt a trip just for 2 of us rite? that's one of our exciting goals for the future!! :))
Posted by: yanni2 | January 23, 2011 at 20:49